Here's a stat you might not have expected: One in five adults has gone without sex for over a year. This eye-opening revelation comes from a nationwide survey conducted by Joi AI, which polled 1,000 adults about their sex lives. While 37 percent reported having sex in the past week, that number still lags behind pre-pandemic levels, suggesting a lingering 'sex recession.'
So why are so many adults experiencing this dry spell? The survey digs into the reasons, painting a complex picture of modern adult life. A significant 36 percent of respondents admitted they simply have no one to sleep with. Low libido was another culprit, affecting 30 percent, while financial and workload stresses impacted 24 and 19 percent, respectively. Mental fatigue also played a role, with 25 percent citing it as a factor. The survey highlights a generation juggling too much and connecting too little.
“It’s clear that we’re grappling with more than just a lack of sexual activity – there’s a broader issue of disconnection,” commented an expert on the findings.
Emotional closeness seems just as elusive as physical intimacy. Over 50 percent of participants said they felt close to someone, but nearly 30 percent felt close to no one, with half of this group wishing for more connection. When asked what they missed most, emotional connection topped the list, followed by physical intimacy and, lastly, sex.
With sex less frequent, many have turned to alternatives. Over 40 percent of respondents said they consume adult content instead of having sex, while 17 percent have tried sexting and 8 percent rely on AI companions. But, strikingly, half of the surveyed individuals admitted they don't replace sex with anything, hinting at a deeper emotional fatigue.
Despite these challenges, there's a silver lining. More than half of the respondents are optimistic about the future, with 55 percent believing they'll be in a relationship by 2026 and 63 percent expecting some romantic encounters next year. Yet, 42 percent believe relationships only make sense if they offer practical benefits like financial stability or child-rearing. Loneliness remains a pressing concern, with nearly half listing it among their biggest fears for the future, underscoring a desire to reconnect.