Erika Owens Shares Heartbreaking Turn After 90 Day Fiance While Stephanie Matto Flourishes

  • By Cole
  • Oct. 30, 2025, 2 p.m.

Erika Owens' Post-Show Struggles: A Tough Reality Check

Once a beloved face on TLC’s 90 Day Fiance, Erika Owens is now dealing with some harsh realities. Known for her vibrant personality and bold fashion, Erika recently shared with fans a deeply personal update following her departure from the show. Life after reality TV has not been a fairytale, as she grapples with the aftermath of a difficult breakup and financial hurdles.

Erika, who made waves as part of the show’s pioneering same-sex couple with Stephanie Matto, is finding post-show life challenging. The Australian jewelry designer has been candid about her struggles, revealing in an emotional Instagram post that she’s been "barely staying afloat." Since her split from Stephanie, Erika’s journey has included a four-year relationship that ended in 2024, sparking a further wave of difficulties.

Reality vs. Success: Stephanie Matto's Flourishing Ventures

While Erika faces emotional and financial turbulence, her former partner Stephanie Matto seems to be thriving. After their tumultuous relationship on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days ended, Stephanie has carved out a successful path for herself. From launching her adult content platform, Unfiltrd, to her infamous "fart jar" business and even publishing a book titled Bad Blood, Stephanie’s post-show ventures contrast starkly with Erika’s situation.


“Honestly, I’m feeling vulnerable and exhausted," Erika admitted, highlighting the depth of her ongoing challenges and the financial strain she’s under with legal fees and living expenses.

Fans have noted this stark difference, with many discussing Erika's struggles on 90 Day Fiance's Reddit page. Her requests for financial support have drawn mixed reactions, with some labeling it "e-begging" while others offer sympathy for her predicament.

Community Reactions and Future Prospects

The contrast between Erika and Stephanie’s post-show lives has not gone unnoticed by fans. Erika’s call for help, especially her Instagram plea for donations to cover legal costs and pet care, has sparked conversation and even controversy within the 90 Day Fiance community.

As Erika navigates her current challenges, her story is a reminder of the unpredictable nature of life after reality TV. For Erika, each day is about finding hope amid adversity, whereas Stephanie continues to build her entrepreneurial empire. Fans and followers will be watching closely to see how Erika rises above her trials and what the future holds for her.

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Cole covers the infrastructure of the creator economy - OnlyFans, Fansly, Patreon, and the rules that move money. Ex–fact-checker and recovering musicologist, he translates ToS changes, fees, and DMCA actions into clear takeaways for creators and fans. His column Receipts First turns hype into numbers and next steps. LA-based; sources protected; zero patience for vague PR.