Following "Strictly Come Dancing" star Ore Oduba's candid confession about his 30-year struggle with porn addiction, 26-year-old Josh Lane unveils his own compelling narrative. Josh started consuming adult content at just 12, and by 15, he was watching it for two hours daily. "I was in year seven when a friend asked if I’d seen any porn. I went home and searched for it on my iPod Touch," Josh shared, comparing the experience to "opening Pandora’s box." His story, much like Oduba's, underscores a common but often hidden struggle many face in silence.
“I felt guilty and withdrew from those around me," Josh admits. "It felt good and I would keep chasing that high.”
Ore Oduba's recent revelation at age 39 reflected a decades-long addiction that began at just nine years old. His honesty has sparked increased awareness, coinciding with a poll by the Children's Commissioner showing 70% of respondents had seen porn before 18, a rise from previous years. A staggering 25% reported first exposure by age 11, often via unintentional social media encounters. Oduba’s admission highlights a significant issue – one shared by many, including Josh.
Josh, who is now a local church youth leader, described how his addiction affected his life, from school performance to personal relationships. "I’d watch porn at night instead of sleeping, leaving me exhausted and unfocused at school." He confided that his addiction led him to isolate himself from friends and family, fearing judgment and discovery.
After years of struggle, Josh found support through his relationship with his now-wife, Jordi. Their marriage in 2024 marked a turning point, with Jordi's understanding and encouragement playing a crucial role in Josh's recovery. "It was so painful telling her," he recalls, "but I vowed there and then to stop." Over a year later, Josh proudly maintains his sobriety from porn addiction, emphasizing how much brighter life is without it.
Experts agree early exposure to adult content can be damaging, with potential impacts including distorted views on intimacy and increased secrecy. However, Josh's story and Oduba's openness offer hope and inspire others to seek help and talk openly about their experiences. "It’s amazing Ore has spoken out," Josh notes, championing the strength found in sharing and understanding.