Lily Phillips Shares Her Journey Of Bisexuality And Finding Love

  • By Imani
  • Nov. 25, 2025, 1:30 p.m.

Lily Phillips Embraces Her Bisexuality

Content creator and influencer Lily Phillips has candidly discussed her bisexuality, revealing her preference for settling down with a woman. Known for her daring online persona, Lily has kept her dating life relatively private until now. She's stepping into new territory by exploring relationships with women, sharing that she feels a deeper understanding and connection with them.

Exploring Love on 'Blind Matchmakers'

Fans are in for a treat as Lily embarks on a unique dating journey on ITV's 'Blind Matchmakers.' Unlike conventional dating shows, contestants are blindfolded, relying solely on voice and personality to make connections. "I think women's relationships are amazing," Lily shared about her experience. "You're best friends but also sexually attracted to each other – that's my ideal relationship."

Finding a Connection with Lani

During her time on the show, Lily struck up a connection with fellow contestant Lani, a social media influencer. Their chemistry was evident, although Lily admits their interactions have been limited to friendly exchanges. "Lani is great, she's beautiful," Lily commented, highlighting the admirable qualities that drew her to Lani.


"I've never felt any judgment, so to me, it's just like dating boys," Lily remarked, emphasizing the acceptance of her bisexual identity.

The Challenges of Dating and Fame

Despite her intentions to settle down eventually, Lily is currently focusing on her career. She admits that dating can be challenging due to the demands of her busy schedule. "Right now, I want to be selfish, so I'm not dating," she confessed. Instead, she's embraced her role on 'Blind Matchmakers,' showcasing a more vulnerable side beyond her adult content career.

Lily also opens up about the scrutiny that comes with her celebrity status, noting that negative comments often stem from others' insecurities. Luckily, she finds support within the adult industry community, where understanding and camaraderie are prevalent.

Building Strength Through Vulnerability

The show has allowed Lily to showcase her courage as she navigates dating without visual impressions, focusing on personality and connection. "I loved the idea of no pre-perception of how someone looks," she shared, embracing the fresh dating approach. As Lily continues to navigate her journey in the spotlight, her story inspires others who may face similar challenges in balancing personal and professional lives. 'Blind Matchmakers' is available for streaming on ITVX and ITV's YouTube channel.

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Imani follows the money: payouts, contracts, lawsuits, and platform enforcement. With a background in entertainment PR and paralegal work, she breaks complex stories into plain-English playbooks for creators. Her series Follow the Money connects drama to data - who benefits, who pays, and what to do next. Calm, sourced, and courtroom-ready; DTLA is her second office.