Lizzo'S Grammy Win & Virginity Pact: A Surprising Milestone

  • By Nico
  • April 3, 2026, 7 a.m.

Lizzo Opens Up About Her Virginity Pact

This week, Lizzo shared a heartfelt secret that may leave fans both inspired and amazed. Appearing on the Friends Keep Secrets podcast with the charismatic trio Lil Dicky, Benny Blanco, and Kristin Batalucco, the "About Damn Time" singer revealed that she held onto her virginity until a significant milestone was achieved – winning a Grammy. Lizzo, who many see as a beacon of self-confidence, described her younger self as a "nerdy, big girl that nobody liked," content with the thought of remaining single forever.

A Goal-Oriented Life

At roughly 31 years old in 2020, Lizzo decided to wait until she had a Grammy in hand before losing her virginity. The singer candidly said, "I promised myself when I was younger that I wouldn’t have sex until I won a Grammy." It’s a bold testament to her drive and belief in herself – and she did just that, securing the prestigious award for Best Urban Contemporary Album and Best Traditional R&B Performance in 2020. Lizzo’s determination is truly a lesson in self-belief and perseverance.

“I wasn’t even thinking about that. I didn’t even know that it was in my cards,” Lizzo explained, emphasizing how her priorities were career-focused even after her Grammy win.

Reflecting on Her Journey

Though her virginity pact might seem unconventional, Lizzo confirmed it wasn’t the Grammy night itself when she had sex for the first time. Reflecting on her past, she admitted to feeling embarrassed in social settings about being a "late bloomer," especially when friends would inquire about her love life. The "Truth Hurts" singer also shared that religious beliefs played a part in her hesitation towards physical romance, and she didn't have her first kiss until the age of 21.

A New Chapter

Now 37 and dating Myke Wright since 2021, Lizzo is living life on her terms, having shed the weight of her secret. The singer feels liberated in sharing her truth, inspiring countless fans who might relate – if not to her exact journey, then to the universal experience of self-realization and acceptance. And while most may not share her Grammy condition, her story is a powerful reminder to always bet on oneself.

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