Secret Rendezvous: The Mom Uncovering A Breeding Kink Before Hitting The Slopes

The Hidden World of a Suburban Mom

Each week, Alyssa Shelasky delves into the intimate lives of anonymous city dwellers in her Sex Diaries column, a staple since 2007 that even inspired a 2022 HBO series. This week, we meet a 34-year-old married woman from Westchester who is juggling her family life with a clandestine affair.

Our protagonist begins her day at 6 a.m., savoring a quiet moment with a cup of tea before the household rush begins. It's also the perfect time to connect with Bryce, her affair partner from Boston, who wakes early like she does. Their relationship, forged on a site catering to those seeking affairs, started six months ago. Bryce is a health-conscious 40-year-old with a passion for biohacking, starkly different from the typical profiles on the site.

Love, Lust, and Long Drives

The connection between them is more than physical, though the attraction is undeniable. "I hadn’t had sex with anyone but my husband for 12 years," she shares, highlighting the intensity of her feelings for Bryce. While her sister – who also serves as her therapist – believes she might be 'dickmatized,' the woman insists her emotions are genuine.

“I finally figured out what I’m going to get you for your birthday,” Bryce texts, teasing with a link to a "clone-a-willy" silicone dildo kit, keeping the conversation lively and intimate.

Amidst the excitement of planning secret meet-ups, she manages her daily routine, loading her sons into the car for school by 8 a.m. Reflecting on her journey from meeting her husband on a sugar-daddy website at 23 to being a Botox-using suburban mom, she questions how she arrived at this unexpected chapter of her life.

A Double Life

This week’s diary provides a glimpse into the complexities of maintaining a double life. As she prepares to whisk her family away on a ski trip, she continues to balance her roles as a mother and a partner in a secret romance. The anonymous woman's story underscores the intricate dance between desire and duty, showing that even in suburban sanctuaries, secrets can thrive.