Emily Mai, an adult content creator, is breaking down the stigma around her career choice by sharing how OnlyFans has revolutionized her role as a single mom. The flexibility of her OnlyFans work, she says, allows her to be present for her two children in a way her previous jobs couldn't.
Reflecting on her past roles, Mai compares her current gig to her former life as a stripper, where exhausting overnight shifts left little room for daytime parenting. "If I was dancing right now, I would just be tired from working all night," Mai told Us Weekly. Her stint in corporate life wasn't much better, with traditional 9-to-5 hours keeping her away from home most of the day. Now, she revels in the freedom her OnlyFans career provides, allowing her to spend quality time with her kids.
“I definitely feel like it makes me a better mom,” Mai exclusively told Us Weekly, highlighting the flexibility her current work offers.
For Mai, a typical day begins with early morning content creation, followed by preparing her kids for school. Once they're off, she focuses on her work until it's time to pick them up. "We go play, or we go to their after-school activities, and then I work again when they're asleep," Mai explained. This schedule gives her the best of both worlds – professional fulfillment and time with her children.
The creator has crafted a harmonious balance, saying, "My job is so flexible... I can take them overseas and continue to make money." Her children, who see her as a constant presence in their lives, believe she does "computer work" and haven't delved into the specifics of her career.
Mai's decision to separate her personal and professional lives is met with skepticism from some parents, but she maintains a clear boundary. "There’s separation between the two identities," she asserts, explaining that her work is confined to a secure, locked space away from her children’s view.
Despite occasional judgment from others, including a fellow parent who struggles to understand her lifestyle, Mai stands firm in her choices. She emphasizes the importance of keeping her work and family life distinct, ensuring her home is a safe, nurturing environment. "I’m just their mom," she said, prioritizing her children's understanding and comfort over public opinion.